There are situations when we come to a new team or begin to talk in strangers on dating site, or even sex chat, but the contact is not getting better, you are moving away from the group and become a black sheep, you sidestep and avoid contact with you. The reason for this may be a lack of energy, interest and other life-drive, as well as interests, hobbies.
If you believe in yourself, then behave as naturally as possible and, most importantly, keep inner calm.
Do not attach much importance to what is happening. But do not wait until you approach someone and get acquainted. Take the first step themselves, be more pro-active, take part in discussions and do not refuse if you about something ask. Another problem may be with the opposite sex.
How to learn to communicate with the guys
Proper communication with the guy help you build a good long-term relationship. Remember, if the conversation turned into a dead end, and your companion with you to talk about, he almost immediately lost interest in you.
To understand how and what to say, try to find out what it is, what, if he has any hobbies, he loves.
Try to be positive and cheerful, like all these people, they are forced to smile and forget about their problems. Smile always inspire trust and a mutual understanding. In any case do not forget smiling, because it will help you to avoid stress in the conversation. Never wring their hands, do not cross them on the chest, as this gesture on the subconscious perceived as security and secrecy, unwillingness to communicate, the desire to protect their comfort zone. Do not be nervous and do not strain, do not bite the lips, it is also a sign of embarrassment. Be yourself.
In a conversation with a guy, try to choose a theme, which he carried away, try to understand them, and only then proceed to the debate.
Of course, it does not necessarily know all the details. Ask him something on the subject, it will only be pleased that you care about their knowledge and opinion.
Do not be silent, but if it happens that you do not find the answer tell what you do not know. Thus, you will be able to show their unobtrusiveness, the guy realizes that you are not so easy to be interested. If the guy asked to tell about you, do not forget a couple of the highlights of life and everything. Recall when communicating with the guys, you need to focus all the attention on them, not to yourself.
You can talk to the guy on all sorts of topics, based on your mood, but without vulgarity and intimate details and at first intercourse is not allowed. Try to speak to the well-known theme; women should avoid gossip and discussion of other people behind their backs.
The most important thing is to maintain a casual conversation; it will give you an idea of exactly what the guy is interested.