Politeness online: why ugly people get rude more often?

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According to a study conducted in big dating site, social networks or even sex roulette resources users tolerate the unflattering remarks by nice people more often.

A survey conducted among two groups of users, conventionally divided into a beautiful and "not very" showed that despite some rudeness in communication, attractive people less likely to receive an answer in the negative. The division into groups was carried out by researchers from the University of Wisconsin-based assessment questionnaires and other users based on their own sympathies in relation to a particular user. Men and women in both groups were composed about equally. The users of dating sites and social networks asked the same questions, and the answers were processed and systematized.

There were the following questions

1. "Have you in the course of correspondence stall at his interlocutor and tell him unpleasant things, whether the rejection of proposals dating or just being rude due to a bad mood?"

2. "What were answers?"
Answers of ten thousand users of various online dating sites show to organizers interesting results.

Results

It turns out that the vast majority (93%) of respondents who were assigned to the group of "beautiful", in response to the manifestation of his abusive behavior towards the other party did not receive a negative reaction in response. It (the reaction), or not there at all, or it was a peaceful and aimed at speedy extinguishing flares confrontation.

On the contrary, people ascribed to the second category much often get negative (about 85% of cases) in response to their rude behavior. Those, provoking rudeness own the most of users get the same answer.

It turns out that on the Internet, most of the respondents, regardless of their education can easily get nasty in response to the rude attitude of people towards them, they are not very nice, and vice versa go unheeded unpleasant remarks in his address on the beauties and handsome.

Thus, the Internet community reflects a strange trend in which people can feel attractive impunity for their actions, while unattractive people do not receive any leniency for his mistake. Perhaps this is another reason why so many people are trying to look on the network much more attractive than in real life.